April 2008

ADHD and Marriage: Using "Action and Reaction" to Turn Your Relationship Around

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Tue, 04/29/2008 - 18:09
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There are a number of posts in our forum from non-ADD spouses who would like to blame their ADD spouses for the troubles in their marriages.  I personally think “blame” should be considered a 4-letter word that is banned from all marriages.  The fact of the matter is that we are all responsible for the state of our relationships.  Or, to paraphrase Newton’s laws of motion, “for every action, there is a reaction”. >>> Read more >>>

ADHD Marriages: The Power of AND

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Sat, 04/19/2008 - 12:47
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I was just reading a post in the forum area from a woman sharing her experiences with how much using the word AND has improved her life with her sons and husband.  I thought it was an interesting and positive idea that more would like to read about, so I link to it here.  AND is a positive word - it's inclusive (much needed in the ADD world), and helps take things away from "black and white" viewpoints.  AND, it's accepting.  See what you think.

ADD and Marriage: Controlling Your Spouse's Life

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Fri, 04/18/2008 - 17:53
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When I got married, I think I misread the marriage license.  I could swear that in the small type on that document I saw the words “this license lets you control your husband’s life from now on!”  I must have needed glasses because boy, was I wrong!  But (and I say this affectionately) how many other women do you know who made the same mistake?! >>> Read more >>>

Why Your Husband's ADD is Different from Your Child's

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Mon, 04/14/2008 - 15:12
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If you have both a spouse and a child with ADD, there are some important differences between how you will naturally want to interact with them – differences that can really hurt your relationship with your spouse if you aren’t aware of them.  >>> Read more >>>

ADD and Memory

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on Tue, 04/08/2008 - 21:20
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One of our readers commented on his experiences with vastly improving memory since his diagnosis of ADD, so I went to Dr. Hallowell to ask him – does ADD affect memory?  His response was typical Hallowell in the very best sense:
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