April 2010

For a non-ADHD partner, it is SO frustrating to watch your spouse struggle without result.  You want her to do well.  You can see HOW she might improve things.  If you were doing them, it would be EASY.  Yet nothing changes.  How does a non-ADHD partner remain empathetic in this situation, rather than become angry?  >>> Read more >>>

Wondering if your marriage problems might be explained by the presence of ADHD?  Here are six signs that you should look for: >>> Read more >>>

We are getting ready to update this site and are looking for your ideas.  Tell us what you like about the current site set up and what you would like to see improved. When you first came to the site, what caught your eye?  Was the info at the top of the home page helpful?  Do you use the tabs at the top?  Are you aware of the feed options and different ways to follow the blog?  Are they important to you?

We'll start work on this at the end of April, so please let us know your ideas and comments before April 30.  And thanks for you input! >>> Read more >>>

I've been thinking about power balances in relationship recently, and the role that validation plays in maintaining balance between partners.  I want to propose that you consider doing an experiment to better understand the ways that you and your spouse validate each other (or don't).  If you understand this better it will give you information about how to diminish conflict in your household. >>> Read more >>>