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Your husband may not be willing to help out with the kids - many men don't see themselves in this role, not just ADD kids.  Do yourself a big, big favor and get yourself a responsible mother's helper.  This can be a responsible high schooler if you can't afford an adult caretaker.  This will give you at least some of the breathing room that you need to stay sane.  And it's much cheaper than divorce.

Melissa Orlov