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....my husband is the fun happy-go-lucky guy that everybody loves. I watch peope adore my husband and all the while I think to myself, "Yea, but you don't have to live with him." Being married to an ADD husband is like being married to a child that everyone loves but who you are sick and tired of..... it's puts your wife in a "mother" role.....
THIS IS EXCATLY WHAT MY WIFE HAS SAID. IT IS WHAT SHE HEARS ALL THE TIME FROM EVERYONE. THIS IS ONE OF THE THINGS THAT IRRATES HER THE MOST. SHE SAYS THE EXCAT SAME THING. sHE IS TIRED OF HARING HOW NICE I AM BLAH BLAH BLAH.... I TOO HAVE JUST BEEN DIAGNOSED AND IT APPERNLTY HAS BEEN TOO LONG COMING. EVERYONE HAS SAID THAT I HAVE HAD IT. DIDN'T THINK IT WAS AN ISSUE BUT IT WAS/IS AFFECTING OUR MARRAIGE. IN ADHD THEARPY NOW AND ON MEDS. HAVE NOTICED AN IMPROVEMNET BUT STILL TRYING TO SEE IF IT WILL WORK. I THINK IT WILL BUT SHE IS STILL UP IN THE AIR I GUESS. DEFINITLY NOT OUT OF THE QUESTION. MY BIG PROBLEM WAS I WAS FOCUSING ALL MY ATTENTION ON HER AND BECAME TOO MUCH TOO QUICK ( BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 8 YRS).... I AM TRYING TO GET BACK TO WHERE WE FIRST MET AND START OVER SO TO SPEAK AND BE THE PERSON I WAS BUT JUST NOT AS OVERBEARING IF THAT IS COORECT WAY OF PUTTING IT. I JUST HOPE IT IS NOT TOO LATE......