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  1. At the end of my rope and don't know what to do..

    kids. So I was online A LOT.  When hubby and I got together, I still was online. Pretty sure, I was ... making excuses to not go. Yeah, it's crummy counseling and I get more feedback talking to a friend. ... non-adhd (but OCPD) husband for almost 3 years. We've been together for almost 8. In the beginning of ...

    leopardprints67 - 03/20/2012 - 12:16 - 4 comments

  2. Husband's ADHD, Adultery and Abuse--Please Help Me!

    I caught him cheating on me by giving me an STD.  After 17 years of marriage and knowing from the beginning ... September before ending it, because I was at the point where it was more painful to stay with him than be ... this was the only thing I could not tolerate, he did it anyway.  I immediately seeked council of my ...

    clover1 - 09/09/2009 - 22:03 - 9 comments

  3. I no longer wish to be passive.

    longer not talk about it. It only makes me more resentful. I know that I have let too much go and I do ... just allowed himself to cheat. I know it happened more than once. But either way, no matter how many ... for 5 years now. I have stayed quiet because I do not like confrontation or conflict. But honestly, ...

    Hoffe frau - 01/04/2015 - 11:25 - 10 comments

  4. Online "cheating"

    this is cheating, as surely as if he had actually had sex with someone. He was interacting online with ... found out that my ADD husband has not only been looking at rather a lot of porn online, he has posted on ... Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on 01/20/2009. Anger, Frustration & ADHD I recently ...

    Anonymous (not verified) - 07/08/2016 - 11:46 - 21 comments

  5. New here and ready to bail after 4 year marriage............

    needing to vent. Where do I begin, or when do I just walk away. I already know I'm in for a lot of ... my life, and can't fix another's life, I wouldn't know where to begin..... ... what I was in for, and surely headed for the hills! But I didn't. I had no idea that my dh had ...

    catwoman707 - 09/04/2015 - 22:01 - 15 comments

  6. ADD & Infidelity

    I require more stimulation sure does that mean my actions get a free pass?  I think not cheating ... bases for the question I am going to pose.  I am not sure how many out of how many meet the criteria of ... compromising what that committment means.  My point is not to judge those that cheat (unless its on me) but ...

    ADD Husband - 10/26/2011 - 18:21 - 2 comments

  7. My Story

    put in a situation like that before and not sure I can make the right choice if the temptation comes ... again- even though I know that its something I can never do again..)- Im not sure my finance really.... ... don't)- and I was generally known to not do the reading and still do well on pretty much anything. When ...

    topekoms - 01/21/2009 - 21:47 - 4 comments

  8. It finally just...clicked

    (just found it maybe a week ago) and brand new to forum posting. I wasn't sure where to post this, ... again, wasn't sure where it best fit. But, I wanted to share. My husband and I have been married for ... actions are not "normal for a guy" and that it is much more than me being "cold" and ...

    ChaosQueen - 07/12/2012 - 18:05 - 5 comments

  9. Donald Trump is a Narcissist. Your Partner with ADHD Probably is Not

    Make sure ADHD treatment is optimized – see my online treatment guide for information on this Remember, ... partner seems self-absorbed, it is likely not narcissism, and with the right approach it usually CAN be ... addressed within your relationship. Why It’s Probably Not Narcissism An article in the June, 2016 issue of ...

    MelissaOrlov - 11/30/2022 - 14:52 - 16 comments

  10. A never ending cycle of infidelity, is it ADD/ADHD?

    him why he cheats and he will say he doesn't know why once things are more calmed down but in the ... caring.... till a year and a half in, after never having a single fight he cheated on me and left me high and dry. ... 5 months old he began the emotional affair again with the same woman he had cheated on me with before and ...

    [email protected] - 08/12/2016 - 03:19 - 5 comments

  11. Communications Struggles

    statements, ask clarifying questions when I'm not sure what her subtext is, etc.  And as an introvert, ... tome without me telling her she's not talking in a way that works for me, which is becoming more ... be.  It didn't used to be such WORK just to have a conversation.  I'm not sure when it BECAME ...

    Looking4Help - 03/05/2010 - 11:33

  12. Non ADHD Husband vs ADHD Wife

    found this site sooner. Even if, i am not sure it would have made a difference. This does seem ... sometimes loving, child like woman whom "in the beginning" i was madly in love with. Me, i am the ... more and more frequent over time. My wife and i are both 56... Same generation, Same music, Same TV ...

    ConstantStruggle - 01/03/2022 - 15:02 - 6 comments

  13. New, desperate, and in a lot of emotional pain-- ADHD husband also has depression & anxiety

    Submitted by astromom on 09/08/2016. Anger, Frustration & ADHD I'm not sure where to ... (which he claims is not actually yelling, just raising his voice in anger; I'm not sure what the ... exactly that.  Last February, he cheated on me online for what he claims was the first time. I was ...

    astromom - 09/12/2016 - 09:40 - 17 comments

  14. Getting ready for guests

    There you have it. I know that by ignoring it, it will grow.  Not sure if I can live with that.  But ... content are "hoarding rooms" and are dirty including his office, his bathroom and his rec room. ...  (He also has the garage and sheds and rented storage buildings where he pays for his rusty dirty ...

    jennalemone - 03/25/2016 - 11:32 - 41 comments

  15. Sound familiar?

    Submitted by SherriW13 on 09/10/2014. Anger, Frustration & ADHD I am beginning to wonder if my ... aren't more manipulation. It is very sad to say but I really do think everything he does and says is an ... leave because he's cheated again and knows it is only a matter of time before I find out. I think ...

    SherriW13 - 09/10/2014 - 21:20 - 16 comments

  16. Looking for hope

    Submitted by exhausted225 on 01/09/2011. Anger, Frustration & ADHD I'm not sure if this ... I am aware that our clean start was all a lie, he's been with a man (that's not cheating ... this point, hurt, angry, embarased, not sure if I should throw in the towel and go home.  To top it off ...

    exhausted225 - 01/09/2011 - 23:14 - 7 comments

  17. Wayne

    2004. I'm not sure what I'm asking...maybe asking why you feel confident that you won't ... a 'trigger' and that he would maybe not have cheated otherwise. I know HE is convinced that he lives in ... out directly, I hope you do not mind. You said something in response to someone else that I felt ...

    SherriW13 - 11/12/2010 - 17:58 - 20 comments

  18. Is hypersexuality a common symptom of ADHD?

    it's that he's not cheating. Am I being paranoid? Has this happened to any of you? Is this normal ... married I noticed that my husband was talking to other women online on a regular basis. He's ... friends were. I told him that, since they're online friends, I would like to know who they are and ...

    Sanvean - 04/30/2020 - 13:44 - 6 comments

  19. Unemployed ADHD Spouse

    finally beginning to understand how his ADHD is affecting me.  I am hopeful that I have finally reached ... ready to leave the marriage.  He is now trying to learn techniques to make him more empathetic.  He is ... this point whether or not these changes will take root, but I'm hoping... My problem is that ...

    Laurie1213 - 12/09/2009 - 14:10 - 10 comments

  20. Just found out about how ADHD can affect our relationship

    me from the beginning that he had ADHD, but I never thought that it could affect our life or ... relationship.  I found out last month that he was pursuing other women online and it frustrated me.  I felt so ... and how I feel, he is content with the way things are.  He thrives at work, and thats about it.  He ...

    Lynn_23_knoll - 10/20/2012 - 14:31

  21. Please Help! "Pretend" cyber cheating gone wrong

    to have sex. Where it really went wrong was when the porn wasn't enough. I needed more ... stimulation and figure that masturbating was an easy fix because I was doing it every day sometimes more than ... a factor in our sex life. I was already drained from masturbating earlier that I would not be in the mood ...

    GotSeb - 12/18/2010 - 17:13 - 14 comments

  22. H's car got broken into...so why am I the only one who is worried about it?!

    were completely emptied of their contents. He said he wasn't sure what all was gone, but for sure ... Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on 01/02/2015. Anger, Frustration & ADHD We took our ... work and barely steps outside the front door so it's not like he was going to be using the car ...

    Anonymous (not verified) - 09/04/2018 - 10:55

  23. contemplating!! analyzing!!! thinking of calling it quits!!!

    more,him and his second child's mother was co-de pendant,NOT LOVE he told me, so he used her to look ... and he has not done that at all. I will have no choice but to end it!!! this would take more than ... way I give it!!! I have not really saw where he love's me the way I do!! maybe he does but he has ...

    lovehurtsalotwi... - 04/28/2012 - 08:08

  24. Where we're at now...

    , or get any more help. He's content the way he is and just wants me to accept him the way he ... all sure about these so called "changes", but anyhow...) It's scary that I'm not ... the session all together!:(It's scary because I'm not sure he's going to do anything ...

    ebb and flow - 02/26/2011 - 18:00 - 39 comments

  25. Is it ADHD or is it Narcassism??

    not in fact losing my mind.  My husband's two oldest sons both have ADHD so that is where I began ... the cheating, the angry temper, stonewalling, silent treatments, saying one thing- doing another, etc, ... life!!.  I then found Melissa's website, books and we even attended her couple's online seminar.  ...

    struggles - 07/10/2018 - 16:14 - 2 comments

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