Outbursts

Hi.  My husband has ADHD & he will sometimes get very angry & yell about minor things.  I guess what makes it all the more frustrating is that he doesn't seem to feel there is anything wrong with his behavior or any need to apologize for it.  If I try to tell him that I don't like the way he is treating me he will go ballistic.  So I have to try to ignore it the best I can.  But sometimes this makes me feel like I'm doing the wrong thing, like I should somehow be setting better boundaries.  Plus, over time it can lead to a build-up of frustration in our relationship.  Because no matter how angry he gets I can never get angry back because then he will go absolutely insane.  It is hard when one person is expressing so much anger & you aren't allowed to be angry in return.  

I was wondering if anyone else has experienced this difficulty.