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  1. My co-dependence

    Submitted by jennalemon on 10/15/2012. Anger, Frustration & ADHD How I make myself ... is my intention when I say it. In my mind, I want to be loved and supportive and "wifey ... stupid I am!) but saying..."I don't have any but I have potatoes, I can quickly make some home ...

    jennalemon - 10/16/2012 - 13:11 - 2 comments

  2. Divorce about to come to fruition... But.....

    since i posted... As a quick recap, i am a non ADHD/ADD spouse in a marriage to an ADD/ADHD woman. ... TOXIC this combo is... I have seen it before, but not to this extent. My wife and i have been married ... doc's... Her new Doc has diagnosed her with Anxiety Disorder, not ADD/ADHD... Is that possible? He took her ...

    ConstantStruggle - 04/15/2022 - 12:39 - 4 comments

  3. Another Friday.. Screwed Up.....I need support any other spouses feel like yet another weekend ruined!?!?

    aside and treated like crap because of the the ADHD. I am done. I know it is a chemical issue, ... Submitted by peacelove on 10/20/2012. Anger, Frustration & ADHD I don't know how much ... feeling 'good", then the effects of the years of the "self medicating" of the ADHD ...

    peacelove - 10/20/2012 - 00:53 - 1 comment

  4. The toxic family that surrounds the ADHDer

    Submitted by Luna_91 on 10/26/2021. Anger, Frustration & ADHD Hello, I was wondering how ... common it is for ADHDrs to have extremely toxic families. My spouse has a mother who is bipolar. Who has ... addicted to meth. I mean, how toxic can it get?  At times, I truly pity the circumstances that my spouse ...

    Luna_91 - 10/26/2021 - 04:28 - 3 comments

  5. Questioning my sanity

    a manipulator, and telling me that I am being toxic and taking his words and using them against him. I have tried ... Submitted by M. on 04/28/2023. Anger, Frustration & ADHD Seeking help, because I'm ... questioning my sanity and reality. Non-adhd spouse. Very soon to be ex-spouse. After 3 years, last month I put ...

    M. - 04/28/2023 - 23:25 - 15 comments

  6. He refuses to work, given up on his stability

    Submitted by Peacefull111 on 10/13/2023. Anger, Frustration & ADHD My long term boyfriend has ... untreated adhd and refuses to acknowledge it. We've been together for 6 years now but it's been ... his car. But he was really aggressive and toxic when living together that I had to leave him and he ...

    Peacefull111 - 10/13/2023 - 05:01 - 5 comments

  7. potential reason for Denial of ADHD: did your spouse have an alcoholic parent?

    http://www.adhdmarriage.com/content/find-volunteer-slapper-your-husband-and-reason A theory on perhaps why some people are in denial or refuse to get help for their ADHD ... double whammy, ADHD and ACoA (Adult Children of Alcoholics).  I am so relieved finally to get more ... Submitted by Dan on 12/08/2009. Anger, Frustration & ADHD I'm a man, 42 yrs with ADHD ...

    Dan - 12/08/2009 - 12:08 - 1 comment

  8. Married to Distraction...

    strengthen—even save—a marriage. Table of Contents Introduction Part 1: Modern Issues in Intimacy 1. The Anatomy ... Distraction 8. Struggle Stoppers 9. Download Overload 10. Eliminate Toxic Worry 11. When Your Spouse Has True ... who wants to jump start their marriage or relationship. Dr. Hallowell is an ADHD expert which makes ...

    MelissaOrlov - 11/21/2010 - 21:48

  9. ADHD partner wants to leave

    Submitted by rubibti89 on 11/29/2021. Support for the ADHD Partner Hi! I am new to this community! ... My husband has recently been diagnosed with ADHD and everything has clicked into place. We have ... a typical ADHD marriage with all the issues. Now we know this I have been reading all the articles and ...

    rubibti89 - 11/29/2021 - 02:04 - 1 comment

  10. I saw this on Facebook.

    just how I am take it or leave it" is still a sign of immaturity. As an adult, it's your ... responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and ...

    AdeleS6845 - 02/17/2019 - 22:54 - 7 comments

  11. Could ADD Trigger or Cause COMORBID NARCISSISM?

    repeat any of it: http://www.adhdmarriage.com/content ... /lowering-my-own-standards-accomodate... http://www.adhdmarriage.com/content/add-and-selfishness My Ex-SO has certainly some serious traits that are typical for ADD, and also some of ...

    at_the_crossroa... - 06/20/2010 - 13:20 - 102 comments

  12. How to Get Those Back Taxes Done if One of You Has ADHD

    become a toxic, overwhelming topic in the relationship.  Typically the non-ADHD partner is out of ... One idea of hell, according to several of my clients, is waiting for an ADHD partner who insists on ... patience, while the ADHD partner continues to insist “get off my back, I will get to them!” The issues here ...

    MelissaOrlov - 07/13/2019 - 08:00 - 1 comment

  13. epidemic ADHD vs. toxic nation

    Submitted by dedelight4 on 03/04/2014. Diagnosis and Treatment of ADHD     I want to start ... a thread on whether or not you folks see ADHD on the rise/ (not just more people being diagnosed), ... are adding mercury, barium and aluminum in our skies, which are causing heavy metal toxicity in humans ...

    dedelight4 - 03/04/2014 - 11:01 - 5 comments

  14. Not settling anymore

    Submitted by jennalemone on 03/21/2023. Anger, Frustration & ADHD I once was a person who was ... now compromising and servile.  I shame myself and criticize myself and put myself in the shadows of others.  I am ... and toxic situations with people who take our voice from us…and even our joy." H is who he is and ...

    jennalemone - 03/21/2023 - 10:44 - 3 comments

  15. Support groups/forums for the adhd perspective?

    Submitted by fuzzylogic72 on 10/25/2010. Support for the ADHD Partner Hi, I am new here and was ... kind of positive content from/for the adhd person's side. For example, the majority of these ... forums and site content seems to me to be about how horrible it is to have to suffer through any kind of ...

    fuzzylogic72 - 10/25/2010 - 12:19 - 48 comments

  16. Positive Report from Non ADHD Spouse

    Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on 01/13/2022. Joy in Marriages with ADHD I am somewhat new ... be perfect at this. I feel so much more content now that I am being obedient in loving the way God ... to this forum. I do check it every morning. It has saved me and my marriage. I am grateful to have ...

    Anonymous (not verified) - 08/04/2022 - 05:45 - 7 comments

  17. Can they change?

    blocking out all the bad AND it was really really really bad, destructive and toxic. Can someone with ADHD ... Submitted by hope09 on 06/03/2010. Anger, Frustration & ADHD My husband and I have been ...

    hope09 - 06/03/2010 - 14:58 - 16 comments

  18. Is ADHD a tale of two people?

    didnt have ADHD, i'd think he was a horrible, toxic ****! During what could be a minor ... Submitted by MelWifeOfADHD on 07/06/2022. Communication with ADHD Hi everyone, I would love to ... know what you think of this. I've been with my Husband for 10 years now. I came to realise ADHD ...

    MelWifeOfADHD - 07/06/2022 - 09:49 - 7 comments

  19. I Finally Did It

    Submitted by HopingForChange on 03/17/2021. Anger, Frustration & ADHD Hi everyone!  Some of ... of which I blamed on ADHD. I have seen a few people post and do the same thing I did — assume the ... abusive behavior is an attribute of ADHD. It is not! I wanted to update you all and let you know I FINALLY ...

    HopingForChange - 03/17/2021 - 15:07 - 2 comments

  20. the smothering/ignoring rollercoaster can really hurt.

    Submitted by annablue on 06/06/2012. Anger, Frustration & ADHD I love my partner. I am madly ... in love with my partner. But the untreated ADD that she has is toxic. She recognises that her own ... worklife is affected, and admits that out of everyone in her life I am most hurt by it- but then, ...

    annablue - 06/06/2012 - 06:23 - 4 comments

  21. Relieved, Exhausted, & Hopeful

    Submitted by JBD76 on 12/28/2020. Progress You are Making and Hope I am relieved to stumble upon ... this website today after spending the morning searching for strategies / tips for dealing with ADHD in ... our marriage. My husband was diagnosed with ADHD almost 10 years ago after his daughter was diagnosed ...

    JBD76 - 12/28/2020 - 10:20 - 1 comment

  22. Observations of this site from the "ADHD" Spouse

    Submitted by Madenmich on 01/10/2010. other I am very new to visiting this site.  My wife had ... site...I just get the sense that the site is more geared towards the Non-ADHD spouse.- Way way too much ... "Instructions- Read First"- ok this is good.  So I followed that link..and I read the contents.  Please ...

    Madenmich - 01/10/2010 - 18:26 - 15 comments

  23. Ugh I went back and it didn't go well

    Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on 11/02/2023. Anger, Frustration & ADHD Last night ... I texted him that our relationship is toxic and I want to release us both.  He read some of it and then ...

    Anonymous (not verified) - 12/30/2023 - 02:48 - 2 comments

  24. Where's Melissa?

    thoughtfully). I've been impressed with the tone, as well as the content. of what people have written.  (One ... newsletter.  Wow!) Anyway, I am coming back...I will catch back up this week, then post sporadically for August ...

    MelissaOrlov - 06/20/2019 - 13:02 - 9 comments

  25. How to stay consistent with treatment?

    http://www.adhdmarriage.com/content/men-adhd-who-arent-convinced-it-matters I am convinced it matters, btw.  I just often lose sight of why it matters or again, my awareness. ... Submitted by buckeyeaaron on 10/17/2011. Anger, Frustration & ADHD So...my wife had a pretty ... epic blow up at me this morning because of my inability to see the problems I am causing.  I get into ...

    buckeyeaaron - 10/17/2011 - 10:39 - 5 comments

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