Recovering Intimacy in Your Relationship

You’ve lost those lovin’ feelings…AND WANT THEM BACK!!

Stress and discord can wreak havoc with how you feel about, and interact with, your partner.  You may not share as you used to…even the friendship you so cherished is in tatters.  Mutual joy is hard to find.  And your sex life?  It could certainly be better…

Even if you’ve started to win the battle with 'The ADHD Effect', you may still wish to be closer…so it’s time to recover the intimacy you so cherish.  This 7-session self-study seminar will get you going with critical information, tools that work, and weekly exercises.  It's designed to provide you with practical and immediately useful information on topics such as:

  • Finding intimacy in ALL areas of your relationship
  • How to identify your intimacy strengths and weaknesses
  • How adult ADHD may impact intimacy
  • Conversational techniques to get you started on the path to greater intimacy
  • The ways to becoming best friends again
  • Putting desire and joy back into sex (!)
  • …and much more

Regain your closeness… recover your partnership dreams…become friends again…and yes, improve your sex life!

Though it is not required, if you are a couple impacted by ADHD I strongly recommend you register for The ADHD Effect In-Depth, before you purchase this seminar.  This will calm your relationship and prepare you for Recovering Intimacy in Your Relationship.

Ready to feel joyous together again?  See that twinkle in your partner’s eye?  Here are the details…(or purchase this self-study course below)


Course Overview (for a more detailed syllabus, go to this link)

Session 1:  Understanding Intimacy and Self Intimacy.  An introduction to thinking about intimacy in a new, and more productive way; How you and your partner can more effectively identify and express your emotions; the first tools for making changes in your relationship, and more.

Session 2: Preparing for Successful Conflict Intimacy.  Why certain types of conflict interactions hurt, while others build intimacy; Identifying and getting rid of conflict style habits that get you in trouble; Exercises to help you and your partner identify your own conversational conflict styles and identify the changes you need to make, and more.

Session 3:  Conflict Intimacy In-Depth.  What is conflict intimacy?  Power and control issues that interfere with conflict intimacy;  Specific skill building for smoothing out the conflict interactions in your relationship; Defining your conversational intimacy process; exercises to develop conflict intimacy skills.

Session 4:  Improving Your Conversations - Right Now.  The qualities and habits of good conversations - and the information you need to start using them; How relationship scripts and filters get in your way; Could you benefit from a 'relationship reset?'; exercises to start introducing more affection, and more

Session 5:  Affection Intimacy - Getting Going.  All you need to know about affection intimacy, finding joy in your relationship and becoming best friends again.

Session 6:  Sex and Desire.  All about affection intimacy in the sexual realm to get your sex life going again and make it more fun!

Session 7:  And Again...Bringing it all together with a course review.


Purchase this Course!

This is a downloadable self-study course with presentation materials, worksheets and suggested reading to help you re-engage and improve your intimacy.  Sound like a lot of work?  Maybe, but it's also really interesting AND it leads you to the place you want to be with your partner.  What's rekindling your affection worth to you?  The price for this course is just $189 for all seven sessions and the other materials.  Register at the button below and you will be sent an email with a link for all course materials.  THE COURSE MUST BE DOWNLOADED TO A COMPUTER FIRST, then can be moved to other devices.

Purchase Recovering Intimacy Self Study Course

Need More Info?

If you have questions about the course, please contact Melissa here.



"We very much appreciate your particular approach in the narration…your sense of humor and down-to-earth sensibility. For too long we were mired in what felt like mud…slogging through a thick murky place of resentment, dislike, sourness. A perfect word sourness. No laughter or lightness. We are now coming out the other side and it’s surprising that such a place can be temporary (and overcome) depending on the commitment of both parties...we are beginning to incorporate more joy and fun into our life together... At this point we don’t know how much intimacy can be regained but we are trying and life together is much smoother."


And a few comments about the impact of Melissa’s other live-by-phone seminar, The ADHD Effect In-Depth

"Thank you for creating such useful resources…After 16 years of beating our heads against the wall (my non-adhd wife mostly) our relationship is turning around for the better. We started reading and listening and it was like you were a fly on the wall of our entire marriage. I always wondered why we were so different from all our married friends with the issues we dealt with.  I could write a novel about how you've helped me personally as the ADHD spouse. Thank you SO much. I only wish we found you 16 years ago!"

"We took your class and I could write you a “chapter” on how much you helped me."

"Just wanted you to know how grateful I am to you for the work you do and the way you share it with folks like my husband and me.  Our marriage has opened up and we are finally moving closer..."

"We cannot thank you enough for your course. It has given us a new start and we are so truly appreciative. You are a remarkable speaker and we just wanted to thank you."

"We are making breakthroughs in ways as never before.  Married 35 years, this is a dream come true for me as the non-ADHD spouse. We have spent thousands of dollars on couples and individual work and nothing compares to this seminar..."

"My husband of 2 ½ years and I just finished the couples phone session course and we loved it. We are taking it slow and listening to the lectures a few times. Thank you so much!"

For more testimonials about Melissa’s instruction, please go to this ADHD Effect In-Depth phone seminar page.