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I've come here by way of Orlov's first ADHD Marriage book following my wife of 10+ years diagnosis of ADHD last year. The book was tremendously helpful in my ability to both name my feelings and develop empathy for my spouse. Her therapist was unsurprised to hear of her diagnosis and, at that time, also suggested that she may be mildly autistic. I had originally focused on the ADHD portion of her diagnosis but am now looking to grow in my understanding of her autism as I often keep coming back to a core concern of not being able to understand her (feelings, frustrations, desires, etc). Does anyone have any resourses to share with me? Thank you!
