Communication Tips with ADHD

A Lifetime of Interruptions...Interrupted!

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on 01/22/2019.

In a lovely success story, one woman tells how she and her husband discovered that his long-standing habit of interrupting her was a coping strategy to mask ADHD distraction.  Could this be happening to you?

What Does the "Child" Role Look Like in Parent/Child Dynamics

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on 03/12/2018.

Parent/Child Dynamics will ruin your relationship.  In order to change them, you must first recognize what they look like.  This post deals with the 'child' side of the dynamic.

ADHD Partners and Time - Being Late Isn't Just About Time Management

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on 09/15/2017.

Having a partner who says he loves you often be late sends confusing signals.  Learning more can help.

8 Tips for Supporting a College Student with ADHD

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on 07/24/2017.

Helping an adult child with ADHD can be like walking a tightrope.  Here are some tips for making sure you provide support without taking over.

Going on the Defensive, Making Excuses and Denying Fault During a Fight

Submitted by Katie in ADHDland on 05/16/2017.

Does the ADHD partner in your relationship become defensive, offer excuses and deny wrongdoing when legitimate grievances are raised? Here are some reasons why this could be happening and some tips on how they can be addressed.  

Why it's Important to Explain Your Anxiety

Submitted by Katie in ADHDland on 05/01/2017.

About 50 percent of adults with ADHD suffer from an anxiety disorder. Here's the story of how Katie came to grips with hers. 

6 Reasons Your ADHD Partner May Not Lead…and What To Do About It

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on 04/06/2017.

Tired of always leading the show?  Here’s what's going on and how to connect, anyway.

Sleep Issues? Bedtime Wars? ADHD-Impacted Couples CAN Reconnect at Night

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on 11/16/2016.

People with ADHD commonly have significant sleep issues, and couples impacted by ADHD often have radically different sleep schedules, with the ADHD partners being night owls and sometimes sporadic sleepers, and exhausted non-ADHD partners often falling into bed at a very early hour.  Here’s how ADHD-impacted couples can do much better in this area.

8 Shame Busters for Adults with ADHD

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on 05/09/2016.

Trying to avoid feelings of shame is only human, but when it comes to adult ADHD, gentle engagement with raw areas can lead to significant gains.  But how to do that, when shame feels so bad?  These ideas, provided by adults with ADHD, can help both ADHD partners and non-ADHD partners.

8 Interactions That Trigger Shame in ADHD Partners

Submitted by MelissaOrlov on 05/02/2016.

ADHD adults often carry a lot of hurt and shame with them.  Learn what these shame triggers are and you can significantly improve your interactions.  A recent conversation with five adults with ADHD and their partners highlights some of the issues.

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