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Melissa Orlov and Dr. Ned Hallowell blog about marriage when one or both spouses has ADHD. What is it like? What are common themes in marriages with ADHD? What strategies can be used to improve these relationships? How can struggling couples get their marriages back on track so both partners can thrive?
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Sometimes it feels like you're in a bind – you want to communicate that something is bothering you, but you're trying hard not to nag or parent your ADHD partner. If you don’t say anything, chances are good that not much will change. But if you suggest something got forgotten again, it sounds like a critique. What do you do?
Over 15 years ago, when I was feeling unhappy in my relationship, my husband asked me what the chore he should take over. To his surprise, I said ‘do the dishes!!!’ Turns out, I’m not the only one who feels this way. Sharing dish duties turns out to be really important to a whole lot of women.
Newly diagnosed with ADHD? You may be wondering what sort of professional guidance would be most useful. This article helps you figure out where to start.
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- THE END OF MY ROPE OR THE BEGINNING OF ANOTHER by: ADHD Spouse w ADHD 4 days ago
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- Feeling Ignored - The Non-ADHD Spouse Dilemna
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- Want to Have More Sex? Do the Dishes!
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- Feeling Ignored - The Non-ADHD Spouse Dilemna
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- For Men with ADHD Who Aren't Convinced it Matters
- 9 Tips for When Non-ADHD Spouses Just Can’t Cope Anymore
- What is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria and How Does it Relate to ADHD?
- Want to Have More Sex? Do the Dishes!
- How Do We Tell 'Normal' Anger from 'ADHD Anger'?
- The Care and Feeding of a Non-ADD Spouse
- How Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Impacts Non-ADHD Partners
- Feeling Ignored - The Non-ADHD Spouse Dilemna
- For Men with ADHD Who Aren't Convinced it Matters
- 9 Tips for When Non-ADHD Spouses Just Can’t Cope Anymore
- How Do We Tell 'Normal' Anger from 'ADHD Anger'?
- Can ADHD Cause Narcissism?
- The Care and Feeding of a Non-ADD Spouse
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- His perception is inaccurate and he accuses me of feeling ways I don't
- What is it with leaving drawers and cabinets open??!!!
- Letter to my husband: I have reached the end.
- THE END OF MY ROPE OR THE BEGINNING OF ANOTHER
- ADHD Spouse on Probation
- What makes some people feel so entitled??
- THE END OF MY ROPE OR THE BEGINNING OF ANOTHER
- Emotional dumping ground
- What do you do when you can't rely on your spouse?
- Flirting with children
- My wife hates me. I feel hopeless and depressed. I don't know what to do...
- all I see now is ADHD symptoms..partner doesn't see it at all...
- Absolutely no sympathy from husband when I'm sick! In fact, it seems to be my fault!
- How to compliment him when his symptoms are so rampant, that his good qualities are swallowed up by them?
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- What is it with leaving drawers and cabinets open??!!!
- ADHD Spouse on Probation
- The end of a marriage??
- My wife hates me. I feel hopeless and depressed. I don't know what to do...
- Absolutely no sympathy from husband when I'm sick! In fact, it seems to be my fault!
- What do you do when you can't rely on your spouse?
- Letter to my husband: I have reached the end.
- What is it with leaving drawers and cabinets open??!!!
- Feel like my husband is financially ruining me.
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- His perception is inaccurate and he accuses me of feeling ways I don't
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