Dual ADHD couples can thrive, but they do have some different challenges to keep in mind. Here are my top tips when both of you have ADHD.
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Melissa Orlov and Dr. Ned Hallowell blog about marriage when one or both spouses has ADHD. What is it like? What are common themes in marriages with ADHD? What strategies can be used to improve these relationships? How can struggling couples get their marriages back on track so both partners can thrive?
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Taxes are the ultimate in BORING, and also take lots of organizational effort. This means they are not easy for many with ADHD to tackle. Here are some tips for tackling the backlog…and being on time in the future.
There is a lot of incorrect information about ADHD treatment on the internet. Effect size can help you sort through the claims to understand what’s proven to work and, more importantly, how likely one treatment is to work vs. another.
There’s more to learn, but we do know quite a bit about how different treatments for ADHD stack up. Here is athe lowdown on what works, and how it compares to other treatments. I also write about what doesn't work, as well.
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