Cleaning up our own lives.....

Being real with ourselves (about our state) is the only way to move forward (be content w/ our lives and our selves) in life....I would say most of us who post here, have been stunted when it comes to experiencing what we were created to experience....Not because of things like intelligence, work ethic, convictions about right living (hopefully ;)....This stunting has come to pass by our dislike of circumstances out of our control...If I spend and inordinate amount of time having negative emotions, and over thinking the way someone else lives life (even when I am married to the person) what does that do to me, and my quality of life?? At some point we all need to measure our selves...Our lives! Yes! We should have one!...1)________________________________________________________________________________________________10)....With one being ***totally impaired*** by my refusal to accept what isn't in my power, (or any humans power) to change. 10) Being completely free from worry, fretting, anger, bitterness about the circumstances related to another adult person.

OK...Take the test....Where are you? What have you chosen for your life? Or maybe I should say, what are YOU choosing? Because most of us can change, when we accept others as they are....Turn our attention on the things we can influence with our work, love and time.....

As for me I was probably a 1 or 2 at best for the first 4 years...One year apart a lot of prayer and boundaries moved me to a 4 or 5.....And I think I'm a 6 or 7 now....And very happy to say it....LOL....

blessings

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