Being too accommodating

The video of Amy Schumer in "Noises from my Body" (on YouTube) hit me like a smack on the back of the head.  It is exagerated, but it generates the same feeling in my gut as my own situation.  I'm married to a clown and I have been trying to love him and help him.  If I love is scenes from "Sounds Coming from my Body" video.  If I stand my ground and fight for my own life and integrity and would be scenes from "The War of the Roses".

I'm the one doing the dishes and holding the home and family together.  

Just connecting and trying to hold up the mirror for myself and others.