I have been married for 42 years and probably have ADD. I read the book and it fits to a "TEE" My wife has taken the track that I can do nothing right or in time.She is right and I am wrong period. She gives me no credence and controls everything. She tells me how to drive, dress what to eat, and what not. She even corrects me in public. If I forget something, it escalates almost out of hand.
I do not drink, smoke or go to bars, No interest there. I spend most of my time in close proximity to her, she says she is alone. and I am not paying attention to her. My hobby is sports cars and I work in my shop each Saturday and always come in to a very cool attitude. My doctor thinks I do not have ADD, however I fit a lot of the conditions in the book. There seems to be no group in Phoenix. I would like to get some diagnosis so I can go forward.