It's been a while since I was here. I am ABSOLUTELY convinced my ADD spouse has Borderline Personality Disorder. I am emotionally detached (out of self protection) from my wife because of her BPD. I wish it were easier to just walk away from the marriage.
I just saw a post from Dr. Hallowell re ADD spouses with other disorders. It was posted about a year ago, suggested that someone like me seek "support groups" but listed none.
Is anyone else like me out there who has suggestions? I love my wife but I'm not a masochist.