I am angry. My ADHD spouse is sad.
We are both stubborn.
"Look what you did to each other."
I am still not fully able to grasp this observation. Am I free from any blame? No, of course not. But I am so-o-o struggling with this. . . . . "Look what you did to each other." I had really hoped for something else. I really hoped for - well maybe empathy? A bitter pill to swallow. It will not go down.