Seeking Advice


I am looking for help understanding how I can to some things better.  Recently, I have  had issues with inattentiveness, not listening, making up stories, etc.

This has been hurting the relationship between me and my wife to be.  It's got to a point where she does not believe I think she is special, she does not think I can change, and I don't consider her feelings.  

A lot of this not the day to day stuff but more of when we are not together. It's not being able to live in the "now" thinking in the moment.

I would really like to hear some feed back from folks that experience something similar, or can provide a some advice or suggestions on what I can do to reassure her, I love her, I think about her and I consider her.