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    • Write about personal experiences, no gross generalizations
    • No personal attacks
    • Helpful hints encouraged
    • Be civil and respectful, even when writing about difficult topics
    • No email, phone contact information. Most links will be removed
    • REMEMBER - your partner may read what you post.  Choose your words thoughtfully!
  • I would like to receive via email occasional notices from Orlov or Hallowell about events or issues.
  • I understand that posts on the site may be quoted anonymously for use in blog posts or books written by Melissa Orlov or Ned Hallowell.
  • I understand that my registration is not complete and activated until I click the email in the link that you will send me.