Wife Has ADD/ADHD--? Common Traits

Hi; New to the forums; been married for almost five (5) years--Didn't understand the depth/breadth of what ADD is all about, and after this amt. of time, am learning how frustrating it can be.

Believe me--I'm an ACOA and have been in recovery for 7 years,  and have my own issues--but I am totally frustrated with trying to keep my inner peace with all that is going on in our home. And yes, I have been in denial about obtaining a book to read on what ADD/ADHD is all about, but will probably bite the bullet and buy one.