Husband and I had a therapist session yesterday whereby he stated I was angry/resentful everyday. Mostly I am just exhausted trying to get things done and deal with his inconsistency. Therapist told us not to return unless we are willing to listen to each other (we have been going since February 2026).
I am at a loss as to what to do. For past 2 weeks, I have not asked husband for much of anything, have not followed up on anything that needs to be done, and have been attempting to just get through each day. He insists my tone and resentment is evident each minute of the day; I do not have the energy to do that to him. He continues to harken back to things that were done/said beyond the past 2 weeks as if he cannot get past them.
I can only assume too much hurt has occurred on both sides. I have taken my marriage vows seriously, but now feel as if continuing on this path is forcing me to shut down what I need. I feel so very sad and defeated.
