Hello and thanks for your patience in my getting this information to you.
The first Q&A with your questions will be posted to the seminar classroom today. I will open another one after this next session (the third).
You asked for some resources about ADHD. Here are some that I think are currently some of the best:
About adult ADHD generally:
Both of these books are realistic and from top experts, as well as positive in their attitudes about ADHD.
ADHD 2.0 by Hallowell and Ratey
Your Brain's Not Broken by Rosier
Resources for when you have kids with ADHD
ImpactParents.com provides parent coaching when you have neuro-diverse kids. Parent training has been demonstrated in research to improve outcomes for the kids.
The book, What your child with ADHD wishes you knew by Sharon Saline
About ADHD if you are a woman
Look up Linda Roggli and Sari Solden for resources. Both focus in this area.
Blog posts about multiple people in family having ADHD: