Submitted by LyraHeartstrings on 07/06/2015.
This is something I've heard over and over in our almost 8 years of marriage, how he says everything is ALWAYS his fault and he's ALWAYS getting blamed for things that aren't his fault. Now very clearly I have pointed out many times where he was the person responsible but he refuses to accept it.
Do your ADHD'ers say this? He's like a massive martyr and doesn't see anyone else's suffering ever.
In my experience yes
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Submitted by overwhelmedwife on
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I think my Dh often has a negative filter and seemingly innocuous comments that I make arrangements taken as a direct insult or with a negative connotations when it was simply just a statement of fact.
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I agree with ^^^^
Also, I think that deep-down, they know that they are responsible for a lot of the troubles in their relationships...spending too much, being too lazy, getting too angry, etc.