Overview
There's a lot to work through and think about when you are married to a partner with ADHD. These support groups for non-ADHD partners are given by Zoom and led by Melissa Orlov, Rachel Ban, Lee Crespi and Julie Heflin. Each session focuses on one or two topics a week that are chosen by group members for in-depth exploration. Participants support each other, explore their biggest issues and most pressing problems, and get advice from the group leader - and from each other. Group leaders and other group participants will help you develop strategies for finding satisfaction and happiness. The objectives of the support group are to:
- have you be part of a community of people exploring similar issues
- learn from each other's successes and struggles
- find new, more effective ways to be your best self in your relationship
Logistics
The groups are run via Zoom video call and last one hour. The group itself, or the group leader, picks a topic for the day. The groups are limited to 9 or 10 participants - enough people to get a good conversation going, but not so many that you can't speak up. It will be recorded for the confidential use of participants in case they have a conflict. Note that dates may change.
Dates
The next support groups will begin March - May, 2023. Registration is now open.
IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE NOTIFIED OF FUTURE SUPPORT GROUPS, PLEASE CONTACT MELISSA.
Spring, 2023 Support Groups:
MONDAY, 11:30AM EASTERN will meet on SIX Monday mornings on the following dates: May 8, 15, 22, break, June 5, 12, 19. NOTE: price for this group is $222 because it is only 6 sessions. Led by Rachel Ban (full)
MONDAY, 4:30PM EASTERN will meet on seven Monday afternoons on the following dates: April 3, 10, 17, break, May 1, 8, 15, 22. Led by Melissa Orlov (full)
TUESDAY, 11:00AM EASTERN will meet on seven Tuesday mornings on the following dates: March 7, 14, 21, 28, April 4, 11, 18. Led by Julie Heflin (full)
TUESDAY, 11:30AM EASTERN will meet on seven Tuesday mornings on the following dates: May 9, 16, 23, 30, June 6, 13, 20. Led by Rachel Ban (register below)
TUESDAY, 1:15PM EASTERN will meet on seven Tuesday afternoons on the following dates: March 7, 14, 21, 28, April 4, 11, 18. Led by Lee Crespi (full)
THURSDAY, 11:30AM EASTERN will meet on seven Thursday mornings on the following dates: May 11, 18, 25, June 1, 8, 15, 22. Led by Rachel Ban (register below)
THURSDAY, 4PM EASTERN will meet on seven Thursday afternoons on the following dates: TUESDAY April 4, then April 13, 20, 27, May 4, 11, TUESDAY, May 16. Led by Melissa Orlov (full)
THURSDAY, 7:30PM EASTERN will meet on seven Thursday evenings on the following dates: Mar 9 (postponed), 16, 23, (break), April 13, 20, 27, May 4, 11 (added). Led by Melissa Orlov (full)
Faculty
Melissa Orlov is one of the most respected experts in how ADHD impacts relationships in the world, known for her practical, even-handed approach to how to overcome the struggles of ADHD-impacted relationships. She has been a marriage consultant since 2007 and is known for the quality of her seminars and support. For more information see the 'About' page.
Rachel Ban is a couples therapist well versed in the issues that those impacted by ADHD face. She is a calm voice for those seeking to stabilize their lives. You will find her compassionate approach to your issues soothing. You can read more about her at the 'About' page.
Lee Crespi is couples therapist who specializes in working with couples with ADHD. With over 40 years as a clinician in private practice, she has an abundance of expertise as well as a warm, compassionate approach. You can read more about her at the 'About' page.
Julie Heflin has a masters in mental health and personal, as well as professional, experience working with adults with ADHD. You will find her a nimble, calm, and attentive presence in discussions around the issues that non-ADHD partners face in their relationships. For more information, see the 'About' section.
Registration and refund policy
A 7-week session costs $259. Groups are limited to up to 10 people.
We will remove the registration button when the group is full. NOTE that if there is an overenrollment in a specific group, we will try our best to put you in a different group. Registration begins February 8, 2023.
Monday, 11:30am Eastern (six sessions only) (Rachel Ban):
FULL
Monday, 4:30pm Eastern (Melissa Orlov):
FULL
Tuesday, 11:00am Eastern (Julie Heflin):
FULL
Tuesday, 11:30am Eastern (Rachel Ban):
Tuesday, 1:15pm Eastern (Lee Crespi):
FULL
Thursday, 11:30am Eastern (Rachel Ban):
Thursday, 4:00pm Eastern (Melissa Orlov):
FULL
Thursday, 7:30pm Eastern (Melissa Orlov):
FULL
Full refunds are provided up until 48 hours before the sessions begin.
IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE NOTIFIED OF FUTURE SUPPORT GROUPS, PLEASE CONTACT MELISSA.
Testimonials about Non-ADHD Support Groups
"It's been so valuable to hear everyone's perspective..."
"The group has helped me put words to what I have been walking through..."
"This group has been so supportive and validating. I've found the insight and ideas really helpful, and being heard is wonderful."
"The group gave me more hope, and the energy to continue the work I know I need to do to improve my marriage."
"It can be lonely living with an ADHD partner. This group has been an invaluable source of comfort."
"The non-ADHD partner support group helped me come back from the brink of divorce and reclaim a loving relationship. Being in conversation with Melissa and with other people navigating similar challenges helped me not only better understand my partner and how ADHD impacted our marriage, but more importantly, understand what I was doing to trigger our tensions and how I could let go of control and show up more powerfully in our marriage. I am sure I will continue to draw on the wisdom and insights from these groups for years to come."
"We were in a tough place...I couldn't wait until Thursday nights."
"Not feeling so crazy anymore!"
"A comfort. Thanks to everyone for the openness and validation!"
"It helps me do better with what I'm working on."
