ADD symptoms


I am going to be tested for ADD.  My husband has severe ADHD...I wonder if it is common for people with ADHD to attract ADD spouse?  Anyways some of my symptoms are anxiety/depression, innatention, inability to accomplish dreams, spacey, bad working or short term memory I have to compensate and do things to hide it a lot at work.  When both him and I go to the grocery's a disaster in stress and spaciness!