I am the spouse of a newly diagnosed ADHD. I need to hear from men with ADHD. My husband of 3 years is a sex addict. I would say he is a mild one. He has his whole life dealt with stress by fantasizing, etc about other women. I don't need to go into detail. Here is my question. He just got on meds a month ago along with an anti depressant and what a difference! BUT, he is sooooo distracted by other women constantly. Don't get me wrong, I am a prude, but this can be pretty hurtful sometimes. I have a very high drive myself. My question is I am new to this and I know they have major impulse problems, but can this ever be really somewhat controlled with an ADHD? I just need to know what to expect with this and how I can make myself feel better. I also really don't feel he has cheated but I want to just keep us balanced and my expectations normal with this. ANY SUGGESTIONS?