ADHD effect on Marriage

Hi, new here as I'm trying to salvage my relationship! Is there any point reading the book? 
I'm not sure I can cope with something else telling me that I need to adapt and change *my* non-ADHD behaviour. I need good constructive advice about whether a relationship is is possible and to still feel like myself and not that I'm constantly compromising who I am & what I believe! 
thanks!