Ambigamy and Communication

Ambigamy.  Noun. A relationship that defies classification. Can be short term or may last years.

I am he as you are he as you are me
And we are all together
See how they run like pigs from a gun see how they fly
I'm crying

Sitting on a cornflake waiting for the van to come
Corporation teeshirt, stupid bloody Tuesday
Man you been a naughty boy. You let your face grow long
I am the eggman, they are the eggmen
I am the walrus, goo goo goo joob

Mister City Policeman sitting, pretty little policemen in a row
See how they fly like Lucy in the sky, see how they run
I'm crying, I'm crying
I'm crying, I'm crying

Yellow matter custard dripping from a dead dog's eye
Crabalocker fishwife pornographic priestess
Boy you been a naughty girl, you let your knickers down
I am the eggman, they are the eggmen
I am the walrus, goo goo goo joob

Sitting in an English garden waiting for the sun
If the sun don't come
You get a tan from standing in the English rain
I am the eggman, they are the eggmen
I am the walrus, goo goo goo joob

Expert textpert choking smokers
Don't you think the joker laughs at you? (Ha ha ha! He he he! Ha ha ha!)
See how they smile like pigs in a sty, see how they snied
I'm crying

Semolina pilchard climbing up the Eiffel Tower
Elementary penguin singing Hare Krishna
Man you should have seen them kicking Edgar Alan Poe
I am the eggman, they are the eggmen
I am the walrus,

John Lennon..The Beatles

In terms of introspection, and "Introspective Intelligence"....I just discovered this idea of Ambigamy in an article on this topic.  In it, the author Jeremy Sherman PHD, defines the languages of the four (I)'s or better...the four personalities from which each language speaks from in all of us whether we realize it or not?  When I ran across this article, it helped explained this to me what this is and also what I've been trying to do myself without being able to explain it?  Does that sound familiar? HA!!  It did this extremely well indeed.  If I apply this to almost any situation or memory of my past....I can see where I went wrong in terms of how I speak and the language that was used. 

The point that the author makes hit right at home with what I've struggle with myself and still do all the time.  It's not about being right or wrong....it's about being accurate.

Great Article.  I thought it was worth sharing:)

 Cogito ergo sum  "I think, so therefore I am... I am, I exist, is necessarily true whenever it is put forward by me or conceived in my mind." Descartes

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ambigamy/201404/introspective-intel...

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ambigamy/201404/introspective-intel...

J