Anyone else not at all attracted to their ADHD spouse? Sexually, too?

It's so sad to me.  I have no desire to be intimate with my ADD husband.  I know that's fairly normal, I don't feel close to him at all mentally or emotionally.  I pretty much hate sex b/c it's him getting his "fill" from me and I'm just there to help him get the job done.  I asked him for the first time last week if he felt any emotions during sex.  He said only "sexual" feelings.  Nothing involving me.  Just him getting his feel-good.   I of course don't feel any emotions during sex either, but I'm not the one wanting sex.  So hearing him say he didn't feel any either, I guess hurt a little.  And what's even more dandy is his sex drive has gone up again since he stopped taking his meds.  I honestly haven't been interested in sex for 5.5 of the 6 years we've been married.  I don't even have the desire to hug him or give him a kiss during the day.  Anyone else relate?