It's so sad to me. I have no desire to be intimate with my ADD husband. I know that's fairly normal, I don't feel close to him at all mentally or emotionally. I pretty much hate sex b/c it's him getting his "fill" from me and I'm just there to help him get the job done. I asked him for the first time last week if he felt any emotions during sex. He said only "sexual" feelings. Nothing involving me. Just him getting his feel-good. I of course don't feel any emotions during sex either, but I'm not the one wanting sex. So hearing him say he didn't feel any either, I guess hurt a little. And what's even more dandy is his sex drive has gone up again since he stopped taking his meds. I honestly haven't been interested in sex for 5.5 of the 6 years we've been married. I don't even have the desire to hug him or give him a kiss during the day. Anyone else relate?