Do any of you non-ADD spouses ever get apologies from the ADD person? In my house, my ADD husband would do or say something that even he knew hurt me, but (this was a real conversation):

ME: It really hurt me when you did that

HIM: Don't you think I know that? Do you have to rub my nose in it? Don't you think I've suffered enough?

ME: Sorry

Wait, what? Did I just apologize to HIM? Crazy-making.