Do you feel like your ADHD partner often has the urge to provoke conflicts around that time? I mean Christmas, birthdays, etc.? Because mine certainly does. I've noticed, over the years, we spend those jolly days not even knowing if we're still a couple. It seems like there's excessive need of stimulation that results in uncontrolled anger in my ADHD spouse.
I thought maybe I don't need to explain this further. If this happens you you, you'll know what I mean.
Please, share your thoughts.
EDIT: I realized I might have not made myself clear, so I edited the post.