Calling all the happy ADD couples out there!!!

There's gotta be more than just Melissa and Dr. Hallowell on here that have a happy ADD marriage and a story to go along with it. I'd love to get some inspiration from these happy couples! Tell me your story!!! How and when did your ADD relationship turn around. Some detail about what tools you and your partner used along the way. Does it *stay* happy or is it always an up and down roller coaster that you've now just become accustom to?

Help! Please give me some hope and some joy!!! 

Here and there I read that it's so disappointing to see when others comment "Never marry an ADDer"... Well, I'd like to hear the pros and I'd like someone to help me see the positives....