I am so grateful to you that you have accepted this process of looking at yourself, and accepting this diagnosis of ADD.
I am so grateful to you that you so whole heartedly want to make these positive changes so that we can stay married.
I am sorry for all the times I have focused on the negative and not the positive.
I am sorry for not being able to truly understand what it's like inside your head.
I am sorry for all the times I've told you I felt like you weren't trying, when you honestly were.
I love that fact that you are Always Ready For A Hug, even when I am not.
I love that you can look at a problem that I have absolutely no answer for, and you are able to instantly solve it with your "outside the box" thinking.
I love that you Always Make Me Laugh.
I love that you are able to almost instantly forgive me for my wrongs.
I am sorry that I have not been able to instantly forgive yours.
I am sorry that you're struggling so hard to get these symptoms under control.
I promise that I will always be here to hold your hand when you need strength.
I promise that from now on I will actively seek out all the positives I see, and make you well aware of them.
I promise that I will be a shoulder to cry on as you wade through the hurt and pain.
I promise that I will be here by your side as your cheerleader as we go through life together.
I promise that I will snuggle with you more, even if "I'm not feeling it" because I know it's not just something that you need, but is essential for your emotional survival.
I am grateful, I am sorry, I am in love with you, and I promise you - forever.
Love, Your Wife.