Do any Non-ADHD spouses take an anti-depressant or anti-anxiety meds?

Sorry for such a personal question, but wondering if any of the Non-ADHD spouses have found it helpful to take an anti-depressant or anti-anxiety meds? My husband of 12 years was finally diagnosed with ADHD at age 43 years old. Our marriage has always been a struggle and we have been in couples counseling on and off for 7 or 8 years. We have two young children (one under the age of 2), but  I believe my elementary aged daughter suffers from ADHD as well. Since his diagnosis, my husband is now on meds and seeing an  therapist (one who is familiar with ADHD) a few times a month.  At the time of my husband's diagnosis and at the urging of my family doctor, I see a therapist weekly for individual  counseling

While all of this is great and I do have a sense of hope, I am finding it completely overwhelming. We have good days and bad, but the bottom line is that I am worn-out, tired and often angry. I am working on my anger in therapy. I am wondering if I would benefit from some sort of medicine. I have never taken anything before in my life, but just starting to consider if given the circumstances it would improve my outlook on life. 

Thanks for listening....