Do your friends and family know about the issues you have with your ADHD spouse?

I so badly want to tell my mom, sister, friends and coworkers about all the things H does like not going to work, lying about being at work but really just killing time someplace else until I leave for work and then coming home, lying about pretty much everything, not having any money to contribute to bills, etc. but I never have. I only tell everyone about the good things he does. As far as everyone knows we have the perfect marriage and there's not a thing wrong. I want to shout from the rooftops that H is an inconsiderate, narcissistic person who only does what he wants and makes promises that I know he won't keep. I keep all my anger buried deep down and have to come to these forums (and others) to let it all out.

Is anyone else dealing with this alone?