My wife took our daughter to a play last night, so I met with the parenting coach by myself. The parenting coach brought up the issue of whether my wife has ADHD and listened to my concerns. I explained how the "Adult ADHD Special" I persuaded my wife to see has used a checklist meant for kids, not adults. I also explained how our couples therapist--who was also supposed to specialize in ADHD--doesn't "believe in diagnoses."
God, I hope that this parenting coach can finally give my wife feedback that will help her accept that she has ADHD and that it has caused a lot of problems for our kids.