A couple of months ago, I gave my wife a list of possible psychiatrists who have experience with adult ADHD. She "left a couple of messages" for one of them, but did not follow up--too busy!
Earlier this week, I went on psychology today. I reached out to woman she tried to contact and heard back shortly. Unfortunately, she is not taking new patients.
I then reached out to some others listed on psychology today and found a woman who is a psychologist and a nurse can prescribe medications. Her office assures me that she has experience with adult ADHD. My wife actually made an appointment! I can't take off work to be there, but I am going to try to call in. I have also made a list of behaviors that I believe stem from ADHD so that my wife can't say, "Oh, I forgot to talk about those things."