Can anyone offer me advice on how I can leave my relationship with my ADHD husband? It's gets worse by the day. He has and is destroying me and my life. He says he can't help himself and I cry everyday because I'm being abused. We're not even married a year and its getting worse to the point I have suicidal thoughts.
I don't know how to end it and I need to save myself. We are living with my parents because he lost his job and refuses to work. I have a very good job and launched my own company on the side. We have quite a bit of debt that we collected together but its all in my name. He also detroyed my new car...he got into an accident but I paid to get that fixed but now he burnt the engine and its 6k so add that to the 20k I owe on the car plus the credit card debt. I seem to get ahead and then financial burdens come about due to him.
I miss being happy, I miss having someone be nice to me, I miss just being me. I'm at the lowest point I've ever been.
I beg you all to please give me any advice. How do I know if we seperate that he will help paying the bills...I've carried all the weight and its not fair for me to take such a large burden. I'm maxed out with my time, wellbeing and finances.
I'm looking for a game plan...steps I should take to get moving in the right direction. I'm all ears so please all your advice will be greatly appreciate.