So many have written here wondering if their husband/wife with ADD will ever "get it". For those of you who have ADD and do understand the consequences of past actions, how your ADD impacted your relationships, how your spouse reacted to you, etc....WHAT made you "get it"? Was it medication? Was it counseling? Both? Or a drastic step on the part of your partner?
At what point, did your realization come alive?
Thanks for your thoughts.