My husband got his dosage increased and is now taking an extended release pill and it shows. We've been able to have conversations that even if we don't agree, its not a fight. He's also set reminders in his phone to take 15 minutes to just come talk to me. Yesterday he worked two jobs and still made a bee line for me when he got home and gave me a kiss and told me I looked nice. I was making class treats for our daughters kindergarten class and he came and helped me with that without being asked. I also noticed that when we disagree it doesn escalate to world war III. Since starting meds his anger has diminished greatly and he's not as disrespectful which in turn helps my anger. We aren't out of the woods by a long shot but dang if it doesn't feel like there's a light at the end of tunnel! Having others who understand what's happening is helpful too. I'm really glad I found this site. Thanks everyone for sharing your stories and insight!