As I've been trolling through this site, I'm having a hard time finding a non- ADHD partner saying that they are happy, fullfilled or not alone in their relationships with an ADHD partner, after treatment. I've been with my partner for almost 5 yrs and just finally understood or partially understand what's going on this week!!. I don't think he even has any idea how long and how much ADHD has run his life. I'm looking for some hope that we can get through this as a happy satisfied couple and to be honest I'm not really seeing it here. Please someone give me some hope!! Or do I need a reality check???