:( Having ADHD and getting married seems like a crime!

I am a 25 yr old male with adHd & mild tics, reading this website makes me feel as if I should not ever get married, getting married to someone non-adhd would totally disrupt their lifestyle and would be like a selfish henious crime from my side with smne's life............ I dont know what to do coz deep down I am not a bad person I am on the contrary very child like and kind hearted ; so I dont know - but 98% posts here are so much filled with negativity and horrible experiences that people have had that I dont even feel like telling my to be fiance that I am adhd and she could visit this website coz if she does god knows ................... what an ugly reality!