We had a huge fight:
he said It was " all about him" meaning I should support him 24/7
that all I did was "hurt" him
That I should leave his stuff alone, he had mixed food and groceries with tools.
He needed someone to listen to him.
I was so angry I wanted to move out.
My hubby , often hears what isn't said or doesn't remember what is said.
We get into fights that sound like this:
If you had told me that, I would have done this ............................. I did tell you that AND it's in Writing but you lost it
He gets up like the clown car the other day . while I'm listening to a guru. When I ask that he stop just "taking over" He looks at the TV and says are you listening to that ASSHOLE Again,
Then he goes off in a sulk because I am not delighted he's happy this morning.
two days down the line... I watch Sienfleld and David Letteman.. He joins me, I say... Do you want to call him an asshole ( Sienfield ) . He hears Do you want me to call YOU an asshole.. He gets up to leave
I apologize but try to say why I did.it.