So my husband who has left me over hardly any issues, suddenly mentioned to me of an incident six years ago where I apparently chased him down the hallway with a knife. I know that did not happen. I said to him why did you not mention this before, he says that's because he didn't want to remind me off it just in case I wanted to do it again. I'm finding this very upsetting, how would I forget something as grave as that but he's so persuasive he makes me doubt my own mind. Also he can't keep anything to himself and goes about oversharing the most minor argument as abusive so I can't see how he could have kept this a secret all these years.