How can I get ADHD spouse to fight for our marriage?

I am new to the forum and found a lot of useful information here

My ADHD spouse is in denial.  I have read so many books about ADHD but I cant get my wife to read none.  I trying to get her to educate her self on the symptoms Adhd

Its very frustrating that she will not addressed these issues.  I love my wife with all my heart but I am starting to wonder if our marriage will ever improve.

I wish I could get her to just read some these forums and blogs

Can  anybody help??