How does he feel now that it's over?

I'm not sure if I even really want to know the answer to this... I guess I'm afraid I already do... 

The self-centeredness, all the running around, projects taking priority, poor communication, the lack of connection - this is why our marriage ended.  I haven't had any contact with him for the last couple weeks, and this time has been so hard for me. As difficult as it was, and as much as I know that it's probably for the best (for me - and him too I geuss) that it's over between us, I miss his terribly and love him and it's so hard... I wonder, does he miss me?  

I didn't feel loved in the relationship - not properly - not as much as I wanted or had experienced in the past. But, he insisted he did love me, and I did feel it from him (in his way.) So, I suppose I shouldn't be surprised by wondering whether or not he thinks about me/misses me at all.  It's a continuation of the central problem our marriage faced.  But, what do you all think?  Do they miss us when it's over? Or do they just run and run and get into their projects and not think much about it at all.  

Shoot me straight. I can take it.