A hug box???

So I see that there is a slug box and a big majority of the topics are negative venting. I was wondering if there are any positives as well.It's a little discerning to a new comer to see so many discussions on divorce. Has anyone found a way to make it work with their ADHD spouse?As much as we have been through with his drug abuse and our two children, I would hate to think it was all for nothing because his ADHD issues got in the way.


I know that I'm new here but can I purpose a HUG BOX to counter the SLUG BOX? A place where we can praise our spouses for something good they did. I think a little positive attitude could help us find some balance.