Hi everyone! 
Some of you may remember my post from a long time ago. I talked about my abusive husband's behavior much of which I blamed on ADHD. I have seen a few people post and do the same thing I did — assume the abusive behavior is an attribute of ADHD. It is not! I wanted to update you all and let you know I FINALLY left. I want to encourage those going through the same thing to leave. I'm in a safe place and I have a new, beautiful relationship. Please don't waste your time hoping for change that they are not capable of. Take care of yourselves! And thank you to everyone who opened my eyes to the toxic behaviors and let me know it is not normal and he will not change.