I get so tired....

So tired of repeating myself. Same things I've asked him to do the entire marriage, he just can't manage to remember most of the time. I've resorted to putting a few notes up around the house, but I can't cover the house in notes. I would just like to go one, entire day without something forgotten or undone or half-as$ed. I have to STILL remind him to be quiet during our son's nap time. I have to remind him to give the bath at a decent hour AND to wash his entire body. Bathing has been his job since last July, but it still gets skipped and half-as$ed. The house smelled like cigarettes AGAIN. He's known for about 3 years now that he has to wear his hoodie when he smokes and leave the stinky hoodie outside. Still, he forgets to either put it on or leave it outside. I try to let so much go, but GEEZE!!!! When it involves the life of my son or the animals, I just can't. Although, I try to be as nice as possible when reminding him for the 10,000th time what to and what not to do. 

Common sense is seriously lacking over here, on a minute by minute basis.