So, if by some strange chance anyone reads this I just want to say that I am very disappointed with this site.  I have posted two topics that I could really use advice on and I have gotten zero response..zilch..nada. I feel like I am talking to empty space. I thought this site would help but its not. If i had more experience in this area i would reply to each and every topic, but i don't. I just need help as a young girl new to dealing with an adhd partner. I thought people here who had marriage and or counseling experience would help. But instead I get no replies. This is useless. I think you all need to look at what this site means to u. If you have experience and are choosing simply to write ur own thoughts while ignoring others who are new to this and might benefit from your life experience and insights, you r doing nothing. Its just plain selfish. Goodbye empty air in the internet....