Submitted by Fallingapartinside on 08/12/2015.
My partner and I have been together for 15 years and the last five have been extremely hard. I have contemplated leaving many times. I hate how I feel around him. There is very little effort, little sharing of partnership, a lot of similarities to what I have been reading on this site. What I would like to know, is it better for those who have left? Is it better for you mentally? Better for your children? I so want to do the right thing and I do love my partner but his ADHD is destroying me and I don't know how long I can continue to endure it. Can anyone speak to leaving and how they are doing?
2 years in.
Submitted by HesitantLA on
=( I feel the same way. I don't know what to do about it. I feel:
ignored, like my needs don't matter, like i'm at fault FOR EVERYTHING simply because i have needs. I feel awful around him these days, where he used to make me feel loved, cherished and special, i feel empty worthless and unimportant, and i'm about to throw in the towel =(
Your post is awhile ago, have you made any progress??