My partner and I have been together for 15 years and the last five have been extremely hard. I have contemplated leaving many times. I hate how I feel around him. There is very little effort, little sharing of partnership, a lot of similarities to what I have been reading on this site. What I would like to know, is it better for those who have left? Is it better for you mentally? Better for your children? I so want to do the right thing and I do love my partner but his ADHD is destroying me and I don't know how long I can continue to endure it. Can anyone speak to leaving and how they are doing?